Frary Funeral Homes and Cremation Services - Malone Obituaries - Eulogy Assistant (2024)

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Introduction to Frary Funeral Homes and Cremation Services - Malone A Legacy of Compassion and Care Frary Funeral Homes and Cremation Services - Malone Bernard J. Patterson - March 30, 1931 - April 23, 2024 Deborah Knepp - January 28, 1953 - April 05, 2024 Richard J. Brown - March 14, 1933 - March 27, 2024 Connor J. Pickreign - June 04, 2007 - March 27, 2024 Marie A. Shutts - July 30, 1964 - March 12, 2024 Tania Y. Spaulding - November 18, 1953 - March 06, 2024 Carol A. Warner - May 11, 1943 - March 05, 2024 Pat Matthews - May 17, 1938 - February 26, 2024 Be Thi (Vu) Horner - June 03, 1941 - February 24, 2024 Anna Jean Langdon - May 14, 1963 - February 22, 2024 Donald Lamitie - December 19, 1931 - February 09, 2024 Richard P. Finch - November 07, 1955 - January 18, 2024 Bonnie Lee Dox Curtin - October 09, 1954 - January 13, 2024 John H. Horner - August 04, 1946 - January 04, 2024 Ronald G. Anderson - April 27, 1929 - January 03, 2024 Amanda Lynn-McGeachie Quick - February 15, 1989 - January 03, 2024 Brian J. Bennor - May 16, 1965 - January 02, 2024 Alyssa M. LaFlesh - April 19, 1991 - December 18, 2023 Albert David LaVigne - March 10, 1960 - December 16, 2023 Abbey Jo Adams - October 17, 1974 - December 12, 2023 Gerald M. Follett - September 06, 1946 - October 24, 2023 Suzanne G. Giudice - November 06, 1949 - October 04, 2023 Thomas Breen - June 16, 1942 - October 01, 2023 Nate Armstrong - October 06, 2015 - September 26, 2023 Betty Lou Stoddard - June 13, 1946 - September 26, 2023 Personalized Funeral Services Cremation Options Pre-Planning Services Facilities and Amenities Community Involvement Frequently Asked Questions What is an obituary? Why are obituaries important? Who writes an obituary? What information should be included in an obituary? How long should an obituary be? Can I include photos in an obituary? How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper or online platform? Is there a cost to publish an obituary? Can I write my own obituary in advance? What is the difference between an obituary and a death notice? Can I include humor or personal anecdotes in an obituary? How do I handle sensitive or private information in an obituary? Can I include charitable donations or memorial funds in an obituary? How long does it take for an obituary to be published? Can I edit or revise an obituary after it's been published? How do I find archived obituaries from past years? What is the purpose of an online guestbook or condolence message? Can I include quotes, poems, or lyrics in an obituary? How do I ensure accuracy when writing an obituary? What is the role of an obituary in the grieving process? Can I create a video tribute or slideshow as part of an online obituary? How long will an online obituary remain available? Can I request corrections or updates to an existing online obituary? What is the significance of including funeral service details in an obituary? Can I write multiple versions of an obituary for different audiences? FAQs

Table of Contents

  • Introduction to Frary Funeral Homes and Cremation Services - Malone
  • A Legacy of Compassion and Care
  • Personalized Funeral Services
  • Cremation Options
  • Pre-Planning Services
  • Facilities and Amenities
  • Community Involvement
  • Contacting Frary Funeral Homes and Cremation Services - Malone
  • Frequently Asked Questions

Introduction to Frary Funeral Homes and Cremation Services - Malone

Frary Funeral Homes and Cremation Services - Malone is a trusted and compassionate funeral home serving the Malone, NY community. With a rich history and a commitment to providing exceptional service, Frary Funeral Homes has become a staple in the area, helping families navigate the difficult process of saying goodbye to their loved ones. Located at 530 E. Main Street, Malone, NY 12953, this funeral home is dedicated to providing personalized and meaningful funeral services that honor the lives of those who have passed.

A Legacy of Compassion and Care

Frary Funeral Homes has been serving the Malone community for generations, earning a reputation for its unwavering commitment to compassion, dignity, and respect. The funeral home's experienced staff understands the importance of creating a personalized and meaningful experience for each family they serve. From traditional funeral services to cremation options, Frary Funeral Homes offers a range of choices to suit every family's unique needs and preferences.

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Bernard J. Patterson - March 30, 1931 - April 23, 2024

Departed: 04/23/2024 (Malone)

Obituary Preview: Calling hours for Bernard Joseph Patterson, age 93, of Malone, will be held on May 9, 2024 from 10:00AM until 12:00PM at Frary Funeral Home, Malone. A graveside service will take place following the calling hours at St. Joseph’s Cemetery. Mr. Patterson died on Tuesday, April 23, 2024 at his home in Malone, NY. Arrangements are under the care and direction of Frary Funeral Home.

Bernard was born on March 30, 1931, in Montreal, Quebec, the son of Andrew Patterson and Catherine Janet Snetsinger Patterson. He attended schools in Cornwall, Ontario and graduated from Massena High School in 1949. Bernard married Eleanore Silver on December 14, 1968 at Notre Dame Church in Malone with Rev. Arthur LaBaff officiating. She predeceased him on December 27, 2010. He is predeceased by his father, Andrew in 1935, his mother, Catherine in 1965, brothers, Andrew in infancy, Gerald E. in 1989, Leo A. in 2004, and half-brother, Jack.

He worked in the traffic/shipping departments of both the Alcoa and Reynolds plants in Massena. While at Alcoa, he was instrumental in forming a local chapter of Delta Nu Alpha Transportation Fraternity, an organization of rail, truck, air, and water carriers. He was a past president of the chapter.

During the Korean War, he served as a member of a U.S. Air Force Band. He was both a percussionist and narrator for the bands concerts and performances. He was honorably discharged in November 3, 1953. He was always interested and active in Veteran’s affairs. He was a past commander of American Legion Post 79 in Massena.

In 1970, he became a U.S. Customs Officer. He worked mostly in the Fort Covington, Trout River, and Chateaugay border area. Bernard met his “adopted son” from different parents –Matt Boyeathrough his association with the Border Patrol. He and Matt enjoyed the breakfasts and coffee clutches with all the men of Malone.

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Deborah Knepp - January 28, 1953 - April 05, 2024

Departed: 04/05/2024 (Malone)

Obituary Preview: Funeral services for Deborah A. Knepp, age 71, of Malone, will be held on Friday, April 12, 2024 at 12:00PM at Frary Funeral Home, Malone. Calling hours will be held on Friday, April 12, 2024 from 11:00AM up until the time of the service. Mrs. Knepp passed away on Friday, April 5, 2024 at Champlain Valley Physicians Hospital.

Deborah is survived by her sons, Thomas Dineen and his wife Nicole, of West Chazy and Leonard Knepp, Keesville, NY; her grandchildren, Alani Dineen and Yazmine Marie; her brothers, Ronald and Deborah King of Burke, NY; Charles and Karen King of Chasm Falls, NY; Timothy and Debbie King of North Carolina; her sisters, Linda Paquin of Burke, NY; Edith King of Burke. She was predeceased by her parents; her sisters, June Spinner and Constance Jarvis; and her brother, George King.

Deborah was born on January 28, 1953, in Malone, NY, the daughter of Howard and Madeline King. Among Deborah's many loves, her fascination with lighthouses held a special place in her heart. Symbolizing guidance, hope, and resilience, lighthouses captivated her imagination. Also her love for animals, particularly horses and dolphins, was unmatched.

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Richard J. Brown - March 14, 1933 - March 27, 2024

Departed: 03/27/2024 (Malone)

Obituary Preview: Funeral services for Richard J. “Dick” Brown, age 91, of Duane, NY, will be held on Wednesday, April 3, 2024, at 6:00PM at Frary Funeral Home. Mr. Brown passed away on Wednesday, February 27, 2024, at Champlain Valley Physicians Hospital in Plattsburgh, NY.

Arrangements are under the care and direction of Frary Funeral Home, Malone.

Richard is survived by his loving wife, Avis Brown; his children, Whitney Avis Brown of Cascade, CO and Becky Marie Wheeler of Newport, NC; a granddaughter, Carmen Marie Sienia; and several nieces, nephews, and cousins. Richard is predeceased by his parents, James and Jeannette Brown; and his sister, Blanche Kreymborg.

Richard was born on March 14, 1933, Bloomingdale, NY, the son of the late James C. and Jeannette M. (Cox) Brown. He graduated from Saranac Lake High School and continued his education at Paul Smith’s College and the University of Maine. He joined the U.S. Navy in 1954 where he served four years in the Seabees. He was honorably discharged in 1958. Richard married Avis Marie Northrup on July 3, 1959, at the Bloomingdale Methodist Church. Richard was employed as a Deputy Superintendent of Highways for the Highway Department in Franklin County, based out of Malone, until his retirement in 1955.

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Connor J. Pickreign - June 04, 2007 - March 27, 2024

Departed: 03/27/2024 (Malone)

Obituary Preview: Connor James Pickreign, age 16, of Malone, NY, passed away unexpectedly on March 27, 2024, with his loving family by his side at Albany Medical Center. His funeral services will be held on April 4, 2024, at 4:00 PM at the Malone Wesleyan Church with Pastor Kevin Young officiating. Burial will be private at the convenience of the family in Morningside Cemetery, Malone. Visitation will take place from 11:00 AM to 3:00 PM on the same day at the Malone Wesleyan Church. Arrangements are under the care and direction of Frary Funeral Home, Malone. Connor was born on June 4, 2007, in Malone, NY, to John J. Pickreign and Lisa Crippen Pickreign. He was a vibrant 10th-grade student at Franklin Academy, known for his zest for life and adventurous spirit. Connor found joy in playing video games, drawing, coffee dates, camping, mountain biking, photography, and hiking. He was always up for an adventure and had a knack for pranks, bringing laughter wherever he went. Connor also enjoyed working out, fishing with friends, and spending time working out on his bikes with his cherished companions, fondly referred to as “The Boys."

Connor is survived by his parents, John J. Pickreign and his wife, Tasha, of Malone, NY, and Lisa (Crippen) Pickreign and her significant other, Kory Cook, of Malone, NY; his siblings, Collin Pickreign and Isabella Pickreign of Malone, NY; his paternal grandparents, Mary and John Johnston of Brushton, NY; maternal grandparents, Tim and Debbie Crippen of Malone, NY; and Donna and George Putraw of Malone, NY; aunts and uncles, Amanda Pickreign and her companion, Johnny Rivera, of Brushton, NY, Josh Crippen and his companion, Chelsey, of Malone, NY, Denise Clanton and her husband, Ron, of Churubusco, NY, Justin Putraw of Malone, NY, and Michael Putraw and his wife, Jacqueline, of Queensbury, NY; and several cousins.

Donations may be made to Donate Life, 185 Jordan Road, Suite 8, Troy, NY 12180, Ronald McDonald House Charities, Inc., 26345 Network Place, Chicago, IL 60673-1263, Wounded Warriors Project, P.O. Box 758516, Topeka, Kansas 66675-8516 and Morningside Cemetery, PO BOX 561, Malone, NY 12953, in Connor's memory.

He will be deeply missed by all who knew him, but his memory will continue to live on in the hearts of those he touched.

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Marie A. Shutts - July 30, 1964 - March 12, 2024

Departed: 03/12/2024 (Malone)

Obituary Preview: In honoring Marie's wishes, there will be no formal visitation or funeral services. A spring burial will be held by the family at a later date.

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Tania Y. Spaulding - November 18, 1953 - March 06, 2024

Departed: 03/06/2024 (Malone)

Obituary Preview: Funeral services for Tania Spaulding, age 70, of Skerry, will be held on Friday, March 15, 2024 at 1:00PM at Frary Funeral Home with Rev. Tom Higgins. Calling hours will be held on Friday, March 15, 2024 from 11:00AM up until the time of the service. Tania passed away on Wednesday, March 6, 2024 at Rochester General Hospital surrounded by her loving family. Arrangements are under the care and direction of Frary Funeral Home, Malone. She is survived by her children, Ivon R. Fahnestock and his wife Sandra, of North Bangor and Rosina Spaulding and her companion William Dutton, of Montana. Her siblings, Cassandra Flick and her husband Robert, of Florida, Clayton Trimm and his wife Cecelia, of North Lawrence, and Chandler Trimm and his wife Cathy, of Tennessee. Four grandchildren, Madison, of St. Regis Falls, Megan, of North Bangor, Nash, of Malone; Nadine, of Georgia, and two step grandchildren; Daryn, of Plattsburgh, Dylan, of Plattsburgh. Seven great-grandchildren; and several nieces, nephews, and cousins. She was predeceased by her parents and husband, David Spaulding

Tania was born on November 18, 1953, in Malone, the daughter of the late Ivon Ray and Ada Belle (Fletcher) Trimm. She was a graduate from Northern Adirondack High School and continued her education later in life with her teacher’s asstant certification after finding her love for teaching. She married young to Garland Fahnestock which ended in divorce. She later married David Spaulding on September 5, 1987, at their family home in Brandon. He predeceased her on July 21, 2005. Tania worked as a Teacher’s Assistant at St. Regis Falls Central School for over 20 years. For at least two of those years, the school celebrated Mrs. Spaulding Day. The students were her true enjoyment.

Tania had a love for her family that could not be measured. She would spend her time traveling to see family all over the country, as well as visit historical sites along the way. She also enjoyed shopping trips as well as sneaking ice cream into all of her adventures with all the family and friends locally. She truly was a shining star who brought love, smiles, and life to everyone she touched.

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Carol A. Warner - May 11, 1943 - March 05, 2024

Departed: 03/05/2024 (Malone)

Obituary Preview: Funeral Services for Carol Ann LaPage Warner, age 80, of Malone, will be held on Tuesday, March 12, 2024 at 5:30PM at Frary Funeral Home. Calling hours will be held on Tuesday, from 3:30PM to 5:30PM. Carol passed away on March 5, 2024 at The Alice Center after a long, courageous battle with cancer. Arrangements are being made by Frary Funeral Home in Malone.

Carol was born in Westville on May 11, 1943, the daughter of Ovilla and Marie Robinson LaPage. Carol was a high school graduate and received an associate degree in Licensed Practical Nursing. She was the co-owner and operator of Warner’s Family Corner Stand at the Franklin County Fair. She also worked for thirty years as a highway contract driver for the United States Postal Service along with catering and making cakes.

Carol’s biggest enjoyment in her life was having Sunday dinner with her family and grandchildren. She enjoyed seeing all her customers at the Franklin County Fair as well as watching her family show horses, watching the Demolition Derby, watching her brothers harness racing, and supporting the 4-H program. She has many fond memories of all her customers on her mail route as well.

Survivors include her husband, Donald whom she married on June 28, 1962, at Our lady of Fatima in Westville; her children, Kevin J. (Melissa) and Susan M. (Wayne) Recore, both of Malone; one brother, Lawrence (Darlene) Lapage; two sisters, Marie Robert and Myra (George) Campbell; 11 grandchildren; 13 great-grandchildren; and her beloved dog, Pookie. She was predeceased by three brothers, Leo, William “Big D”, and Alton “Freckles” Lapage; and two sisters, Betty Henderson and Shirley Hebert.

Memorial donations can be made to the 4-H Horse and Goat programs at Cornell Cooperative Extension, 355 W. Main St., Malone, NY 12953.

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Pat Matthews - May 17, 1938 - February 26, 2024

Departed: 02/26/2024 (Malone)

Obituary Preview: Funeral services for Gertrude Ann “Pat” Nee Travers Matthews, age 85, of Malone, will be held on Friday, March 8, 2024 at 6:00 PM at Frary Funeral Home. Calling hours will be held on Friday, March 8, 2024 from 1:00 PM to 6:00 PM. The burial will take place at St Joseph’s cemetery at a later date. Mrs. Matthews passed away on Monday, February 26, 2024 at the University of Vermont Hospital in Burlington.

She is survived by her children, Donna Matthews-Andrew, of Westville, Paul (Jaquelin) Matthews, of Mooresville NC, Peter Matthews, of Denver, CO, Paula (Dustin) Matthews-Austin, of North Troy VT, David Matthews, of Westville, Stephen (Giselle) Matthews, of Roswell GA, Nicholas Matthews, of Feasterville PA; a son-in-law Edwin Andrew, of Westville, seventeen grandchildren, five great-grandchildren, a brother, Henry (Dorothy) Travers, of Westville; and several extended family members. She was predeceased by her husband, Paul Matthews in 2006; her brothers, Howard, Robert, William, Voris, and Richard; and a sister Mae Vincent.

Pat was born on May 17, 1938, in Malone, NY, the daughter of the late Roy and Corrine La Francis Travers. She graduated high school in 1956 from St Joe’s and continued her education at St Rose College in Albany, receiving a Bachelor of Science Degree. She first went to work as a teacher at St. Regis Falls School for a short time, then worked for 33 years as a probation officer, retiring from NY State Unified court system as the Family Court Clerk.

She volunteered for the Malone Adult Center and the Meals on Wheels programs. She enjoyed outdoor activities including golfing, the company of her pets, and the continuous landscaping care of her property. She was often seen operating her outdoor equipment.

Donations in her memory can be made to: Malone EMS or to a local charity of your choice.

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Be Thi (Vu) Horner - June 03, 1941 - February 24, 2024

Departed: 02/24/2024 (Malone)

Obituary Preview: Be Thi (Vu) Horner of Malone, New York, passed away at her home on Saturday, February 24, 2024 at the age of 82. She was a beloved mother, grandmother, great-grandmother, aunt and friend. She had a kind and witty soul and would quickly charm new friends from strangers. Be will be forever loved and deeply missed by her family, friends and all who knew her.

Be grew up in An Tap, a small village in Vietnam near the South China Sea. She was a determined and adventurous young woman; teaching herself Kung-Fu when she was denied lessons, driving motorcycles and off-road vehicles against her mother’s wishes, only crashing once that we know of. She left school early, married young and gave birth to three daughters in Vietnam; Hien (Teri), Oanh Kim, and Lanh (Tina) before her first husband, Le Van Hoang, was lost to the war. Later, she met Donald Horner in Saigon. They were married in 1968 and she left for the United States with her daughters Hein (Teri) and Lanh (Tina) and her new husband.

Growing up near the sea, Be developed a love of swimming whether it was in an ocean, a lake, a river or a pool. If she was given a chance, she would be in the water swimming. She also enjoyed gardening. She would plant vegetables and herbs whenever she had a patch of land or a pot and dirt to work with. Even when she lived in the city, she found a way to grow some of the herbs and peppers she liked to cook with. This brings us to her cooking. She was great at cooking and baking. It is true that most everyone loves their mom’s cooking, but honestly, she made the best Vietnamese dishes ever! She was adept at sewing, knitting and crocheting. She would often make things for her family and friends. Whether it was food or crocheted slippers, if she knew you liked something she would make a ton of it. Some may recall the year that she knitted a set of hats and mittens for nearly every cousin in the family for Christmas.

Be was a strong, independent, woman. She grew up in a war-torn country, escaped with two of her children, travelled to the other side of the globe, and lived in a foreign land with no other family but her children, where she barely spoke the language. She lived in various cities/villages in Kentucky, Virginia and New York. After the divorce, having to raise her children alone, she found ways to thrive; took adult English classes, worked two jobs, and still made time to take her children to visit family and friends, the zoo, museums, or any cultural events she could find and get to. When her children grew up and had their own families, she would go on vacations and adventures with her children and grandchildren. How she loved to travel and visit.

Be spent much of her life raising children; whether it was her own children, grandchildren, or friends and neighbors’ children. She loved babies and toddlers, and seemed to have an infinite amount of energy to devote to them. Throughout the years she would often babysit neighborhood children. She was sought after by many Vietnamese families in the United States to be a nanny for their young children. Not only because they trusted her but also because she would teach their children Vietnamese culture and was fluent in both English and Vietnamese languages.

Be was a gifted conversationalist. She was often blunt when sharing her opinions. She enjoyed telling stories and she loved to give advice. She could sit for hours chit chatting with you on the phone or in person.

Be is survived by her children: Teri (Gerald) Rego, Kim Oanh (Tam) Nguyen, Tina (Joseph) Harning, and Sameual Horner; her 11 grandchildren: Jennifer (Daniel) Dumas, Thul Nguyen, Jodi Brooks, Linh Nguyen, Eric (Kristina) Rego, Brooke (Joseph) Mancuso, Hieu Nguyen, Shawn Barndollar, Paige Horner, David Harning, and Jacob Harning; and her 8 great-grandchildren: Ethan Dumas, Alanna Dumas, Olivia Dumas, Peytinn Morter, Harper Mancuso, Zayne Rego, Sawyer Mancuso, and Zander Rego; and many nieces and nephews. She was preceded in death by her father Canh Dinh Vu, mother An Thi (Nguyen) Vu, and sister Cam Thi Vu.

The immediate family had a small private home gathering and will be having a private memorial this summer with family and close friends with the date and location to be determined.

The family would like to thank the Frary Funeral Home of Malone for taking care of the cremation and all necessary arrangements with such care and dignity.

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Anna Jean Langdon - May 14, 1963 - February 22, 2024

Departed: 02/22/2024 (Malone)

Obituary Preview: Anna Jean Langdon passed away unexpectedly at her home on Thursday, February 22nd, 2024. Anna was born in Malone, NY on May 14th, 1963, to Vernon and Elizabeth (Lawlor) Rowley. Anna was married to Bruce Langdon for 39 years. Together they had three children, Adrien, Darryl, and Martin.

She is survived by her children, Adrien (Sean McGibbon) Langdon, Darryl Langdon, and Martin Langdon, and grandchildren, Wyatt, and Joseph Lamitie, Lukas and Devon Langdon, and Amelia Willette. She is also survived by her siblings, Greg (Pam) Rowley, Carla Berry, Mary (Fred Chilluffo) Mead, Lisa (Brick) Marshall, Beth (Terry) Bellinger, Donna Rowley, mother-in-law, Jeanie Langdon, sister-in-law Debbie (Donnie) Bell, and brothers-in-law, Barry, Tim, Kevin, and Michael. She was predeceased by her parents, and father-in-law, Kermit Langdon.

Anna was the rock of her family and cared deeply about spending time with her children. She was someone you could talk to about anything, but her advice consisted of a no-nonsense attitude. Anyone close to her knew that she put everyone else before herself. She came across as a very hard individual but in reality, she had a heart that was larger than life. Anna achieved quite a reputation in our community for her culinary expertise, as well as for making and creating many friendships and memories along the way. A former coworker of Anna’s shared this about her “She was an impossibly strong woman who instilled many of her values on us and helped us become the people we are today. With the sometimes-hard lessons she taught, the forefront being, we are all just trying to figure it out and nobody has any right to judge you on any of your mistakes.”

Anna enjoyed her cold beer and a good party, and we know she and her mother, Betty Lou, are enjoying a gin martini together once again. Anna will be greatly missed by her family and friends. We would appreciate it if everyone would take a moment to cheer her and the life she lived.

On Saturday, March 2nd, 2024, calling hours will be held from 1 PM to 3 PM, followed by a funeral service at 3 PM. Arrangements are under the care and direction of the Frary Funeral Home, at 530 E. Main St., Malone, NY 12953.

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Donald Lamitie - December 19, 1931 - February 09, 2024

Departed: 02/09/2024 (Malone)

Obituary Preview: A Funeral Mass for Donald A. Lamitie, age 92, of Ogdensburg, NY, will be held on Saturday, February 17, 2024, at 12:00PM at Notre Dame Church in Malone, NY. Burial will be in Notre Dame Cemetery in Malone in the Spring. There will be no formal visitation. Mr. Lamitie passed away on Friday morning, February 9, 2024, at Carthage Center Facility in Carthage, NY. Arrangements are under the care and direction of Frary Funeral Home, Malone.

Donald is survived by his sister, Elizabeth “Betty” Rafter and her husband, Lyle, of Brushton, NY; a brother, Karl Lamitie and his wife, Terri, of Palmetto, FL; good friends, Scott and Carrie Sholette of Ogdensburg, NY; nieces, nephews, and cousins. Donald is predeceased by brothers, Thomas Lamitie in 1987 and James Lamitie in 1941 and a nephew Jeffry in 1968.

Donald was born on December 19, 1931, in Malone, NY, son of the late George Alfred and Marie Josephine (Langlois) Lamitie. He graduated as Valedictorian from Franklin Academy High School. Mr. Lamitie in his later years went on to attend SUNY Potsdam where he earned his Master’s Degree in 2016 and was the eldest graduate. Mr. Lamitie worked at Claxton Hepburn Medical Center holding various positions and until his retirement.

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Richard P. Finch - November 07, 1955 - January 18, 2024

Departed: 01/18/2024 (Malone)

Obituary Preview: Richard Paul Finch (Rick to those who loved him) died in a skiing accident on Thursday afternoon, January 18, 2024. And man, do we miss him already.

Rick was happiest on his motorcycle, riding down some country roads to no place in particular. He was happiest watching his grandchildren try their best in a sport or activity. He was happiest sharing a beer with his friends after a long day working together. He was happiest talking about Clarkson hockey and all of the players, coaches, and staff that he spent time with. He was happiest sitting next to his wife and children while enjoying a good meal. Kind, fun, and a little competitive, he loved sports, camping, motorcycles, tinkering around the house, and spending time with his family.

Born on November 7, 1955 to George and Virginia Finch, and brother to Vic (Dorothy) Finch, Jim (Gail) Finch, George (Betty) Finch, and Tom (Shirley) Finch. Rick grew up in Clare, Michigan and had a childhood filled with adventure. He was a musician and athlete - setting the stage for his lifelong love of sports and music.

He married Sherry (Deaton) on September 1, 1979 - but they started dating in 1974, so they get credit for a full fifty years of partnership. They both attended Aquinas College, and lived in a variety of mid-western towns and cities while Rick pursued his medical education and a career that allowed him to regularly feel the adrenaline rush that he loved. They moved to Malone in 1989 where Rick could combine his love of the outdoors and activity with a career in emergency medicine.

Rick is father to Adria Finch (Patrick Engle) and James Finch (Brittnie Finch). He is grandfather to Alesandra Finch (16), Serenity Finch (8), Anderson FinchEngle (6), Lilah Finch (5), and Elin FinchEngle (2). By watching him, Rick’s children and grandchildren learned so much about balancing hard work with the things that bring them joy. Consequently they have many of the same interests and skills ranging from home improvement projects, to golf, to watching a car race.

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Bonnie Lee Dox Curtin - October 09, 1954 - January 13, 2024

Departed: 01/13/2024 (Malone)

Obituary Preview: On Saturday, January 13, 2024 at Champlain Valley Physicians Hospital, Bonnie parted ways with her rapidly deteriorating body and entered the afterlife. She was born on October 9, 1954 as the daughter of Marie and Allister Dox. As a child she was constantly in the company of her beloved grandfather, Arthur Kay. From him, she was introduced to one of her life long passions: Horses. This passion remained until literally the last months of her life with the last horses she took care of leaving her property in July of last year.

Bonnie went to school at Franklin Academy in Malone, NY and graduated in 1972. While in school, she developed what was to be another of her life long passions: Music. She learned to play piano, French horn, and was a talented Alto. She graduated from SUNY Potsdam in 1977 majoring in Drama. After schooling, she found employment as a work counselor for the Franklin County CETA Program. A few years later and music reentered her life. Bonnie decided to become a Music teacher. For 35 years, she gave private piano lessons. In those years, thousands of students received lessons in music, and life. Many of the students came for their love of music. Just as many came for the love of Bonnie, she gave her last lesson just weeks before her passing.

The last great passion of Bonnie’s life was Christianity. She was brought up in the 1st Baptist Church in Malone and as an adult was a 30 year plus member of the 1st Congregational church, also in Malone. In both congregations she was able to use her music talents to amplify the word of God during worship services. In the Congregational Church, she ended up as the Music and Choir Director.

During the late 70’s, while directing a local play production, she met the man that was fated to be the love of her life, Brian Curtin. They were married on Augst 21st, 1982. For the next 41 years they experienced the highs and lows of life as a unit. That unit remained intact until January 13th, 2024.

Bonnie was predeceased by her father in 1972 and her mother in 2002. She also survived the loss of two close brother-in-law’s, John Ray in 2016, and PK Curtin, her favorite dancing partner, in 2004. She is survived by her husband, who now fully realizes how lucky he was to catch her. Her much older sister Kay Ray and numerous nieces, nephews, and grand-nieces and nephews. She is also mourned by her cherished half-brother Bryan Elliott of Queensland, Australia. A miracle occurred in 1985 when both Bonnie and Kay were privileged to be introduced to Bryan. In the last forty years, the three formed an unbreakable bond based solely on telephone wires and pitifully few personal visits.

Friends and family may gather Saturday, January 20th at the First Congregational Church in Malone from 10:00AM until time for services at 12:00PM with Reverend John Werley and Reverend Peter Bortz officiating.

Her final resting place will be in the North Burke Cemetery.

Donations in Bonnie’s memory, can be made to the First Congregational Church Tower Fund. Arrangements have been entrusted to the Frary Funeral Home of Malone.

Condolences can be made online at www.fraryfuneralhome.com.

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John H. Horner - August 04, 1946 - January 04, 2024

Departed: 01/04/2024 (Malone)

Obituary Preview: A funeral mass for John H. Horner, 77, of Constable, NY, will take place at noon, Friday, January 12, 2024, at St. Francis of Assisi Church. Burial will follow at St. Francis of Assisi Cemetery. Visitation will be held Friday, January 12, 2024, from 9 to 11 a.m. at Frary Funeral Home, Malone. Mr. Horner passed away on Thursday, January 4, at Champlain Valley Physicians Hospital in Plattsburgh.

John is survived by his wife, Patricia Horner; his children, Greta Thomas of Constable, Karin Martinez and her husband, Ralph, of Watertown, and Daniel Horner and his wife, Amie, of Malone; his 10 grandchildren, Dylan Thomas, Carson Thomas, Gianna Thomas, Alexander Martinez, Tyler Martinez, Laurin Burkeland, Emily Wilkins, Skylar Horner, Jillian Horner, and Nicholas Horner; nine great grandchildren; siblings, Georgianna Denney of Massena and Steven Horner of Malone; and many nieces, nephews, and cousins. He is predeceased by siblings Donald Horner of Darmstadt, Germany, and Brenda Foster, of Malone.

John was born August 4, 1946, in Malone, son of the late Donald and Helen Addie (Barton) Horner. He graduated from Franklin Academy in 1964. Upon graduation, John enlisted in the United States Army. On December 26, 1964, at St. Augustine Church in North Bangor, John married Patricia Jean Lamica, with Father Weir officiating. He was deployed immediately after to Thailand in support of the Vietnam Conflict. After serving one term, John had a short break in service and reenlisted in 1968. He was then deployed to Vietnam and, during his career, served his country overseas in Baumholder and Vilseck, Germany. After 22 years of service, John retired from Fort Sill, Okla., where he was honorably discharged at the rank of Sergeant 1st Class. In 1985, John completed an associates degree in Business Law with the University of Maryland. After retiring from the U.S. Army, John and his family moved back to their home state of New York. He was employed over the years as a security guard at Paul Smith’s College, a bus driver with Malone Central School District, and as an auditor of the EBT program in New York State.

John was active throughout his life, as a devoted husband and father, and volunteer and participant with several organizations. He served for many years as a Cub/Boy Scout and Girl Scout leader, showcasing dedication and enthusiasm in his role. He also served as a Catechism and youth group leader. Additionally, John enjoyed reading, hunting, gardening and was an enthusiastic lifelong learner. He also exceled in hands-on work, whether it was puttering around or taking his hand at carpentry. He was a member of the Knights of Columbus and AMVETS. John will be forever loved and missed by his wife, family, friends, and those who cherished his presence in the community.

Donations in John’s memory may be made to the Wounded Warrior Project, P.O. Box 758516, Topeka, Kansas 66675-8516.

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Ronald G. Anderson - April 27, 1929 - January 03, 2024

Departed: 01/03/2024 (Malone)

Obituary Preview: Ronald G. (Doc) Anderson, age 94, of 3463 State Route 37 in Westville, NY, passed away on Wednesday

afternoon, January 3, 2024, at Alice Hyde Medical Center in Malone. Born on April 27, 1929, at home in Burke the son of the late Ralph W. and Edith (Wood) Anderson. His

parents predeceased him. He attended grade school in Burke and in 1941 his family moved to Westville. He graduated from Old

Fort Covington High School in 1948. On December 5, 1964, he was united in marriage to Marilyn L. Sherwin at the North Bangor Methodist Church by the Rev. David Simmons. They celebrated 50 years of marriage on December 5 th , 2014. She

predeceased him on August 17, 2020. At an early age he began helping his parents on the family farm. He worked on the construction of the St. Lawrence Seaway at Snell Lock and The Long Sault Dam and then on the construction of the Reynolds Metals Plant in Massena. In 1964, he began seasonal employment with the NYS Conservation Department working at Meacham Lake, Buck Pond, and Fish Creek. In 1967, he began full time employment with the New York State Department of Transportation in Malone. He retired from there in

1991. Ronald enjoyed hunting, fishing, gardening, wildlife, feeding the birds, watching the L.A. Dodgers, Boston Celtics, and most of all the cats the family adopted over the years, most recently – A.J. He was a

member of the Westville Historical Organization and the ROMEO Club. Ronald is survived by his son, Randy Anderson and his wife Tammy, of Westville, NY; his daughter, Penny and her husband, Ed Thomas Jr. of Ayer, MA; his grandsons, Dalton and Hayden; and several nieces,

nephews, and cousins. Besides his parents, he was predeceased by three sisters and brother-in-law’s, Shirley and Clifton Willis,

Joyce and Kester Wood, and Freida and Edward Dudley. Funeral arrangements with Frary Funeral Home of Malone, are private and at the convenience of the family. Burial will take place at the Riverside Cemetery in Westville, NY, at a later date and will be

announced in the Spring. Donations may be made in Ronald’s memory to the Westville Fire and Rescue Department or to the

Westville Historical Organization.

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Amanda Lynn-McGeachie Quick - February 15, 1989 - January 03, 2024

Departed: 01/03/2024 (Malone)

Obituary Preview: It is with great sadnesswe announcethe passing of our beloved Amanda Lynn McGeachie-Quick. Amanda passed away unexpectedlyat home on January 3, 2024. Born February 15th, she was 34 years

old. Amanda leaves behind many who love her.She is survived by her husband, Jamie and theirtwo beautiful children; Oliver James (5) and Lydia Violet (3). Being a mother was the most importantaccomplishment to Amanda. She loved her children more thanlifeitself, and she had desperately hoped to be here for a much longer time. Although recently she had many health battles, it

was her children who gave her joy and pushed her to continue daily. Also survived by Amanda are her loving parents; Danny and Michele McGeachie, paternal grandparents; Jimmy and Polly McGeachie and Wayne and Nancy (predeceased) Milne, maternal grandparents Gerald

and Diane Vaincourt and many aunts, uncles, cousins and close family friends. Althoughonly 34 short years Amanda had many accomplishments to be proud of. She graduated from Franklin Academy in 2007, followed by her Bachelor’s Degree in Social Work at PlattsburghState in 2011. She spent time working for Yandos IGA, DSS, and Citizens Advocates. Her desire to help others

was one to be admired and was a direct reflectionof how she was raised by her loving parents. In 2014, she met her husband Jamie and they were married on June 18, 2016. They were blessed to welcome a son and a daughter together. Amanda and Jamie had a beautiful life; one with many times of joy, laughter, blessings, struggles and trials. Her husband Jamie loves her very much and will miss their

times hikingtogether and raising theirchildren together. Jamie asks for prayers for their children. Amanda loved to travel near and far. She traveled to Ireland, Paris and had hoped to take a cruise to see

the beautiful blue ocean with her husband. Amanda has touched the lives of not only her family but all those she met along the way. She will

forever be missed and the loss and ache will forever be immeasurable.

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Brian J. Bennor - May 16, 1965 - January 02, 2024

Departed: 01/02/2024 (Malone)

Obituary Preview: A graveside service for Brian Joseph Bennor, age 58, of Malone, NY, will be held on Wednesday, January 10, 2024 at 11:00AM at St. John Bosco Cemetery. A Celebration of Life will be held at the First Baptist Church on Harrison Place in Malone following the graveside. Brian passed away unexpectedly on Tuesday, January 2, 2023, at his home. Arrangements are under the care and direction of Frary Funeral

Home, Malone. Brian is survived by Kathleen Bennor of Massena, NY; children, Brianna and Steven Bennor of Brushton, NY; his mother, Ethel A. Bennor of Malone, NY; his siblings, Paul M. Bennor Jr., Brenda Pritchard of Malone, NY, Kimberly Bennor and her significant other, James Seymour of Malone, NY, Tammy Trombley of Malone, NY, Timothy Bennor and his wife, Veronica, of Toledo, Ohio, and Robert Bennor of Cicero, NY; several nieces, nephews, cousins, and a wonderful caregiver, Jessica Pritchard. Brian is predeceased by paternal grandparents, Addison and Eva Bennor; his maternal grandparents, Fred Miller

and Margaret Bouvia. Brian was born on May 16, 1965, in Malone, NY, the son of the Paul F. Bennor and Ethel A. Bennor. He graduated from Franklin Academy. He married Kathleen Walker in Plattsburgh, NY. Brian served in the United States Army until his honorable discharge. He later did construction and roofing until he became

disabled. Brian cherished his close pals and the little joys of life. He enjoyed fishing, playing cards, and cheering

for the NY Giants.

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Alyssa M. LaFlesh - April 19, 1991 - December 18, 2023

Departed: 12/18/2023 (Malone)

Obituary Preview: Funeral services for Alyssa M. LaFlesh, age 32, of Brushton, will be held on Friday, December 22, 2023 at 1:00PM at Frary Funeral Home, Malone with Rev. Kris Lauzon officiating. Calling hours will be held from 11:00AM up until the time of the service. Ms. LaFlesh passed away unexpectedly on Monday, December

18, 2023 at home. She is survived by her children, Madison McCuin, of Winthrop, Levend and Lennox Charleston, both of Chateaugay; her parents, Mark LaFlesh and his wife Beth, of Bombay, and Terra Holbrook and her husband Corey, of Chateaugay; her brother, Cole LaFlesh and his wife Kiersten of Charleston, SC; her nephews, Maddox and Beckett LaFlesh, of Charleston, SC; maternal grandparents, Mary Martin, of Brushton, and Leland Frazier and his wife Sue, of Moira; paternal grandfather, Arnold LaFlesh, of North Bangor; step-sisters, Deanna Whiting, of Brasher Falls, and Katlynn Nason, of Dickinson; step-brothers,

Cade and Cooper Holbrook, of Chateaugay; and many aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews, and cousins. Alyssa was born on April 19, 1991, in Malone, NY, the daughter of Mark LaFlesh and Terra (Frazier) Holbrook. She attended school in Brushton-Moira Central School and also attended North Country

Community College. She enjoyed taking care of her grandfather, playing sports especially softball, and spending time with

her kids.

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Albert David LaVigne - March 10, 1960 - December 16, 2023

Departed: 12/16/2023 (Malone)

Obituary Preview: Albert “Al” LaVigne, age 63, of Mooers, passed away on Saturday, December 16, 2023, at University of Vermont in Burlington with his family by his side.

He is survived by his wife of thirty-four years, Deborah LaVigne; his daughter, Kayla LaVigne, of Mooers, NY; his grandchildren, Ella, Weston, and Holland LaVigne; his brothers, Gary LaVigne, of South Carolina and Neal (Shelly) LaVigne, of Mooers; his sister, Donna (John) LaMar, of Peru; his mother-in-law, Betty Ayers, of West Chazy; two sisters-in-law, Jennifer (Evan) Champagne, of St. Albans and Wendy Slocum, of Malone; and brother-in-law, John (Eric) Ayers, of Florida; and several nieces, nephews, and cousins. He is predeceased by his brothers, Russell, Michael, Rodney, and Richard LaVigne; his sister, Carol LaMar; and his father-in-law, Walter Ayers.

Al was born on March 10, 1960, in Plattsburgh, NY, the son of Lyman and Leona (Stone) LaVigne. He graduated from Beekmantown High School in 1978 where he was a wrestling champion. He was an athlete holding 3rd and 2nd place in the NYS Section VII in 1977 and 1978 respectively. After high school, he attended SUNY Cortland before entering a career in NYSDOCS, retiring in 2012 from Franklin Correctional.

He enjoyed woodcarving, going to auctions, and playing poker. Most importantly, he loved spending time with his grandchildren.

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Abbey Jo Adams - October 17, 1974 - December 12, 2023

Departed: 12/12/2023 (Malone)

Obituary Preview: On Tuesday, December 12, 2023, Abbey Jo Adams, age 49, of Duane passed away unexpectedly at the University of Vermont Medical Center. Arrangements are under the care and direction of Frary Funeral Home, Malone.

Abbey was born on October 17, 1974, in Malone, NY, the daughter of Francis and Barbara (Mainville) Wood. She graduated from Franklin Academy in 1992. On December 27, 1993, she married Edward Adams at the Red Tavern Inn in Duane, NY. Abbey worked as a Chef for various restaurants and as a sales representative for Glazier Packing in Malone.

Abbey is survived by her husband, Edward Adams; her children, Benjamin Adams and his companion, Laura LeMastres of Burlington, VT, Thomas Adams and his companion, Olivia Barney of Mt. View and Addison Adams at home; her mother, Barbara Mainville Wood of Duane, NY. Abbey is also survived by her 5 sisters, Amy (Gary) Hitt of Amissville, VA, Annette (John) Wright of Pine Bush, NY, Ann (Shane) Brady of Westville, NY, Andre Wood of Lake Placid, NY, Ashley (Bryon) Conklin of Eagle, CO; 10 nieces and nephews, 6 great nieces and nephews. Abbey is predeceased by her father, Francis Wood.

For over 30 years, Abbey’s greatest love has been her husband, Eddie. Her children, Ben, Tom, and Addison; were her greatest treasures. Abbey was full of love, life and laughter. If you knew her, you know; her presence could fill any room. Her laughter was infectious.

Abbey was well known in the community for her many years of cooking for different establishments. However, one of Abbey’s proudest accomplishments was opening her food stand in the Adirondacks. Abbey loved to feed friends, family and the community; it is where she shined. She will be missed by so many.

A Celebration of Life for Abbey will be held on December 22, 2023 beginning at 3:00 PM at the Amvets in Malone.

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Gerald M. Follett - September 06, 1946 - October 24, 2023

Departed: 10/24/2023 (Malone)

Obituary Preview: Gerald M. Follett, 77, passed away on Tuesday evening October 24, 2023 at the Meadow Brook Nursing Home in Plattsburgh, NY. Born on September 6, 1946 to Gerald and Arlene (Russell) Follett, Gerald grew up in East Dickinson, New York where he enjoyed working on his uncle's dairy farm.

Gerald graduated from Brushton-Moira Central School in 1964. He was employed at Alcoa in the pot rooms until entering the United States Air Force. After serving four years, he returned briefly to Alcoa before pursuing his life long dream of owning his own dairy farm. He purchased "Follett Farms" located on the Johnstown Road in Gouverneur, NY.

After a period of twenty years, Gerald sold this farm and went to work as a civilian for the 10th Mountain Division at Fort Drum doing range management for a period of twenty-five years. While at Fort Drum, he purchased a small farm, "Adirondack Acres Farm," near Harrisville, NY on the Sykes Road where he raised prize Angus beef cattle. He also raised vegetables in a home stand and traveled in season to Tupper Lake, NY where he had his own spot for many years. Gerald was predeceased by his parents, Gerald Sr. and Arlene Follett his two sisters, Patricia (Follett) Quenneville and Sandra (Follett) Sabin. He is survived by his four children, James and his companion Donna

Charland of Chazy Lake, NY, Brandie and James Bogart of Seattle, Washington, Sherrie Dunn of Clyde, NY, and Jacob and his wife Jessica of Seneca Falls, NY. Gerald is also survived by five grandchildren, Marley Bogart, Steven and Sabrina Dunn, and Jaret and Jaden Follett. Also, he is survived by his brothers, Steven (Cindy) Follett of Massena, NY and Vilas (Paula) Follett of Brushton, NY. He is also survived by many nieces and nephews.

Funeral services will be held Friday, November 3. 2023 at the Dickinson Center Baptist Church at 11:00 a.m.

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Suzanne G. Giudice - November 06, 1949 - October 04, 2023

Departed: 10/04/2023 (Malone)

Obituary Preview: Suzanne G. Giudice, a loving and selfless woman, passed away peacefully on October 4, 2023, in Malone, NY. Arrangements are under the care and direction of Frary Funeral Home & Cremation Services, of Malone.

Suzanne is survived by her cherished daughter, Emily Collister; son, Richard Glasco; her grandchildren, Janelle DiMartino, Brennan Collister, and Braedan Collister. She was predeceased by her parents, Samuel and Ruth Giudice.

Suzanne was born on November 6, 1949, in Rochester, NY, the daughter of Samuel and Ruth Johnston Giudice. Suzanne lived a life defined by kindness and service to others. Suzanne was a proud graduate of her high school and continued her education in the field of Nursing. Her lifelong passion for healthcare led her to a fulfilling career as a Licensed Practical Nurse. Over the years, she worked at various healthcare facilities, including the renowned Alice Hyde Hospital. Her dedication to her work was unmatched, and she left an indelible mark on the lives of countless patients and colleagues.

In remembering Suzanne, we celebrate a life beautifully lived and a heart so generously given. Her memory will forever be a beacon of love, kindness, and selflessness. As we say goodbye to Suzanne, we find comfort in the knowledge that her spirit lives on in the countless lives she touched throughout her journey.

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Thomas Breen - June 16, 1942 - October 01, 2023

Departed: 10/01/2023 (Malone)

Obituary Preview: A Funeral Mass for Thomas R. Breen, age 81, of Constable, NY, will be held on Thursday, October 12, 2023 at 10:00AM at St. Francis Assisi Church. Mr. Breen passed away on October 1, 2023. Arrangements are under the care and direction of Frary Funeral Home, Malone.

He was survived by his beloved wife of almost 57 years, Barbara Soule Breen; sister, Mary Catenza (Harry) of Hamden, CT. brother-in-law, Michael (Toni – Lynn) Soule, of Alburgh, VT. and many nieces and nephews. He is predeceased by his parents and sisters, Maureen McHale , Helen Ianiello and Barbara Burns.

Thomas was born on June 16, 1942, the son of the late Frank and Helen (Walsh) Breen. He graduated Milford High School in Connecticut. Thomas enlisted in the U.S. Navy in 1960 where he served as radio operator and was honorably discharged in 1966. He worked as a service technician for Merriam-Graves Corporation in Vermont.

Where did the years go sweetheart. Your love of life, radios, and electronics will be with me forever. Thank you for your patience with me; always willing to listen. I cannot wait to see your beautiful blue eyes, your smile, and hear your voice again. Love you forever.

Donations may be made in Thomas’s memory to the Constable Fire Department, 1136 NY-122, Constable, NY 12926.

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Nate Armstrong - October 06, 2015 - September 26, 2023

Departed: 09/26/2023 (Malone)

Obituary Preview: Funeral services for Nathaniel “Nate” Armstrong will be held on Monday, October 2, 2023 at 1:00PM at the Maranatha Bible Church in Constable with Pastor Victor Ortiz officiating. Calling hours will be held from 10:00AM to 12:00PM on October 2, 2023 at Frary Funeral Home, Malone. Interment will take place following the funeral service at the Briggs Street Cemetery in Westville. Nate was called Home to the Lord on Tuesday night, September26, 2023 while surrounded by his loving family.

He is survived by his parents, Joseph and Kristi Armstrong, of Chateaugay; his siblings, Brianna Armstrong, of Chateaugay, Jordan Armstrong and his wife Jenika, of Massena, and Hunter Armstrong, of Florida; his best friend, Addie Meier; his maternal grandfather, Leon Vivlamore, of Malone; his paternal grandfather, William Armstrong, of Westville; and several aunts, uncles, and cousins.

Nate adored learning about all animals and loved going to the zoo. While he couldn't explore the world in the same way others could, his spirit soared through his crafts and his endless passion for the animal kingdom, leaving an indelible mark on all those fortunate enough to share in his journey.

Donations in Nate’s memory can be made to the Hale Center for Families, Boston Children's Hospital, 300 Longwood Ave, Boston, MA 02115 or Westville Fire Department, 3891 NY-37, Constable, NY 12926.

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Betty Lou Stoddard - June 13, 1946 - September 26, 2023

Departed: 09/26/2023 (Malone)

Obituary Preview: It is with great sadness that the family of Betty L. Stoddard, also known as ” Boop” of Malone, New York, announces her passing on Monday morning, September 26, 2023, at the age of 77.

Betty is survived by her loving husband of 38 years, David A. Stoddard. She raised her two daughters, Michele Piester, of St. Regis Falls, New York and Adina Raffiani of Lewisville, North Carolina. She is survived by 4 grandchildren, Randy Piester, Alecia Rocker, Shauna Raffiani, and Maryah Howley, as well as her 5 Great-Grandchildren, Faith, Riley, Jason, Douglas, and Owen. She is also survived by numerous brothers, sisters, nieces, nephews, and cousins.

Betty was born on June 13, 1946, in Hudson, New York. She retired from Livingston Manor Nursing Home in 2009.

Betty's enjoyment in life was her love for Betty Boop and going all out with the decorating for the celebration of Christmas. She also very much enjoyed watching her grandchildren and great-grandchildren grow up and loved spoiling them.

Donations may be made in Betty’s memory to her surviving husband, David Stoddard at: 61 Edward Street, Malone, New York 12953.

A Celebration of Life will be held in December as Christmas was her favorite holiday.

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What is an obituary?

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How do I ensure accuracy when writing an obituary?

What is the role of an obituary in the grieving process?

An obituary serves as a way to acknowledge and process grief, providing a sense of closure and finality. It can also help facilitate communication among friends and family during a difficult time.

Can I create a video tribute or slideshow as part of an online obituary?

Yes! Many online platforms allow you to upload multimedia content such as videos or slideshows as part of an online tribute. This can be a powerful way to celebrate the person's life and legacy.

How long will an online obituary remain available?

The duration for which an online obituary remains available varies depending on the platform or website. Some may keep archives indefinitely, while others may remove them after a certain period.

Can I request corrections or updates to an existing online obituary?

Contact the website administrator or customer support team responsible for maintaining the online archive. They can assist with making corrections or updates as needed.

What is the significance of including funeral service details in an obituary?

Including funeral service details allows friends and family to attend and pay their respects. It also provides important logistical information for those who wish to participate in celebrating the person's life.

Can I write multiple versions of an obituary for different audiences?

Yes! You may want to create different versions tailored for specific groups, such as close friends versus acquaintances or colleagues. Just be sure to maintain consistency across all versions regarding essential facts and details.

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How is a eulogy different from an obituary? ›

Editor Carol DeChant explains, "Obituaries are usually mini-biographies, focused on what a person did, but the eulogy is much deeper, more about who the person was... It's meant for the select group of people who knew and cared for that person, or who care for the survivors."

Is the obituary read at a funeral? ›

An obituary is written to tell the story of your loved one. These will often be in the funeral program. There will even be a part of the funeral where the obituary will be silently read by everyone in attendance at the funeral. It is something you and your family should be patient with when you are writing it.

What is the difference between a death notice and an obituary? ›

Death notices are short and to the point—Name, date of death and where/when the services will be held. However, the obituaries highlight the deceased's community involvement, accomplishments, interests and survivor's names of the beloved.

Who writes people's obituaries? ›

The Funeral Home

The staff may ask to interview close friends and family of the person to get the information required to write it. Funeral Director, Jessica Watts, explains: “In most cases, the family begins the obituary process and we assist with any editing.

What is a good example of a eulogy? ›

Example eulogy:

My dad was my hero. No matter how busy things got, he always made time for the people he cared about, and showed us that family always comes first – no matter what. Everyone who knew him knew how proud he was of the people he loved, of his dog, Buddy, and of his car… of course.

What information should you never include in an obituary? ›

What Not to Include in an Obituary. Obituaries should never be written in the first person as they're not a personal tribute. As stated above, avoid including any personal addresses or phone numbers. Also, the cause of death is not necessary, as careers and education are not necessary details to include as well.

Do you put last names in obituary? ›

When you are listing a relative, make sure to include their first name, their spouse's first name in brackets and then their last name.

How long after death do you write an obituary? ›

Publishing an obituary is a time-sensitive process–you should try to have it written and posted within a week of the deceased's passing. This goes for obituaries published both online and in print.

Why do obituaries cost so much? ›

Why does it cost so much to post an obituary? Publishing an obituary in the newspaper is expensive because of the limited space papers have. Newspapers value every inch of each page, so they must charge to use that limited space for an obituary.

Why would someone not want an obituary? ›

Reasons a Family Might Not Want to Write an Obituary

Some may feel that it is too personal or private to share with the public, while others may not have the financial means to pay for its publication. Additionally, some families may prefer to grieve privately and not draw attention to the death.

Do people get paid to write obituaries? ›

Glassdoor.com reports that the estimated total pay for an Obituary Writer with 0-1 year experience is $83,616 per year in the United States area, with an average salary of $67,084 per year. Many times, family members are too busy, too emotional, or ill-equipped to write an obituary that is suited for a proper send off.

What are the three parts of a eulogy? ›

Try to write the Eulogy in three parts: introduction, body and conclusion. The following suggestions may help: Introduction: Why you have all joined today and the qualities of your loved one. Body: Where you provide a timeline and share stories that may refer back to the introduction.

What is the main point of a eulogy? ›

What is a eulogy? A eulogy, also known as a funeral speech, is a loving way for someone close to the deceased to pay their respects during the ceremony. The speech typically reflects on the life and achievements of the person who has died, paying tribute to their personality and memory.

Who writes the eulogy for a funeral? ›

Who Gets to Write a Eulogy? A eulogy is most often written by an immediate family member or loved one of the deceased individual. This person should have spent a lot of time with the deceased and know them better than anybody else. Anybody can be a eulogizer from parents, to friends, to children.

Are there rules to a eulogy? ›

There is no right or wrong way to write a eulogy: each is as unique as the person giving it and the person it describes. But even if you're used to speaking in public, finding words to say can be difficult because of the special circ*mstances of a funeral. You may be coping with your own grief.

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